Sparkliatti bio picture
  • who is behind sparkliatti?

    Sparkliatti is an alter ego, the shiny and the fun and sometimes the ranting site of event designer Sasha Souza and blog editor Hilary Smith. From things that Sasha thinks are cool to the utterly ridiculous, you'll find Sasha's unique opinion on all things party & events. Hilary brings a super hip New York style to the blog updating on events, fashion shows, awesome and inspiring color palettes and everything bridal. Hope you're inspired, entertained and come back regularly for a little more sparkle.

An Ashy Mardi Gras Carnival

Today is Ash Wednesday, the beginning of Lent where Catholics and other denominations of Christianity focus on the death and resurrection of Christ. Lent is a period of reflection and repentance.

But without sinning, what are you supposed to repent? That’s what this past week was for! Mardi Gras (aka Fat Tuesday), Carnival, and Pancake Day are all examples of sinful indulgences. These deboturous festivities are fun had by all regardless of religious beliefs. With Carnival and Mardi Gras come bold flashy colors and lots of sparkle and shine. With Ash Wednesday, muted earth tones of ashy grey and taupe brown are more often used. Why not mix them together for a great color palet and take away some great ideas for the Big Day!

A trend in the past year of having performers at your party is still hot. Having masked Carnival or Mardi Gras performers and dancers will keep your guests moving and entertained throughout the event. The mixture of bright colors with grey in a lounge area keeps both themes alive while giving your guest a relaxed setting. These grey velvet chairs are fabulous! A little bit lux while still drawing the eye to the table. The Brits call the day before Ash Wednesday, Pancake Day. As a late night treat, pass silver dollar pancakes for guests to munch on while the party continues. Masks are worn on the eve of the Lenten season as a way to hide the sinners face. Rather than covering up your guests, these leather cut out masks by Tom Banwell available on Etsy, are similar to the trend of the paper mustaches  and masks, but takes it up a notch. Your guests can even keep the masks as a favor. Lanterns and candles wrapped in grey metal cut outs give the lowlight romantic feeling. I cannot get over how beautiful this photo of a tulip is! If it wasn’t just a trick in the lighting, these flowers would be perfect for a bouquet. Having luxurious looking lounge furniture for guests is key, but this antique wood and violet velvet love seat is the perfect for the bride and groom when they want to kick back. Since grey goes with every color, having a lot of different flowers in different colors will add to the fun Carnival/Mardi Gras look. Keeping the flowers seasonal is a great way to be able to have more flowers without going overboard on the budget.

Happy Ash Wednesday (for those who follow) and hope everyone had a wonderful Fat Tuesday!

-Hilary

 

While We’re On The Topic Of Cakes…

One of my favorite wedding trends that appeared in the later half of the 20th century was the groom’s cake. Another way for grooms to show their personality in a female dominant decorated event, cakes were a way for grooms to have chocolate cake (not typically found in traditional wedding cakes) and some sort of decorative power. Originating from the South, grooms cakes started as a way for a groom to incorporate his college pride to the wedding. School like Alabama, Auburn, Georgia, Texas A & M, Tennessee and many others are used as the theme for grooms cakes with an emphasis on their colors, mascots, and sports teams. Nowadays, grooms cakes can be just about anything. Grooms cakes don’t have to follow a theme or even try to be romantic. In fact, the crazier or more outlandish the cake the better. American culture is so absorbed with “cake culture” there are multiple tv shows like TLC’s “Cake Boss” and Food Network’s “Ace of Cakes” are dedicated to crazy cakes for all celebrations.

Speaking of crazy cakes, did anyone see this life sized Stormtrooper cake that Boston bakery Oakleaf Cakes made for the Arisia Sci-Fi Convention in Boston, MA. LIFE SIZED PEOPLE! Standing at 6 feet 4 inches, this cake…takes the cake (pun intended). Any groom who would get this cake and to his bride who would “let” him get it, you guys rock!

Photo Credit: Oakleaf Cakes. Check out more photos HERE

Anywho, I mentioned before how I believe having a cake at a wedding is a tradition that I will practice. I’m sure my non-groom Brandon would also want a fun cake too (if you guys ever meet him, you’ll know that having some sort of silly and funky cake is right up his alley), so when thinking of him, here are a few that I think he might like and you will too!

Canon Camera, Hamburger, Super Heros, Super Mario, Beatle’s Yellow Submarine, Nilla Wafers, Sushi, Wall-E

-Hilary

Having My Cake and Eating It Too…Along With Other Desserts

Photo Credit: Fleur de Lisa Cakes/Alisha and Brook Photographers

Over time the idea of a cake has slowly simmered down. The hot new trends of cake pops and dessert tables are taking the attention away from the grand art of cake decorating. Until I starting working with Momma Sasha, my proximity to beautiful cakes was limited to my birthday cakes which were always some sort of Disney theme from our local Safeway. The idea of having a big cake for a celebration was something I looked forward to, especially since I started seeing some amazing creations from Fleur de Lisa Cakes. Large, multitier cakes aren’t seen as a necessity as they once were when it comes to wedding traditions. The tradition of cutting the cake is now seen as an interruption in the party flow. So if there is no cake cutting, is there still a need for a traditional cake?

Yes.

While I am not a huge fan of cake, usually only eating a bite or two total (unless its a really delicious ice cream cake with a very specific kind of Safeway icing), having a cake at a wedding is about more than flavor. The art of baking and decorating a cake is a talent that takes skill and practice along with flowing creativity. Just like a florist creating center pieces and bouquets or a caterer dressing a plate of perfect fillet, a baker’s confection is the “icing on the cake” (pun intended) for their big day while treating their guests to another special treat for both the eyes and the taste buds.

Traditionally speaking, cutting the cake (or a loaf of bread back in Roman times) was the first thing a couple did together after getting married. Cutting and serving cake to guests was a united effort to share, invite, and thank guests for attending the wedding. With couples today picking and choosing what traditions to include in their event, I like the idea of keeping this tradition and since I know how much my non-groom Brandon loves cake, he would be on board, partying and cutting cake at the same time.

Just because couples choose to keep the traditional cake doesn’t mean a dessert table is out of the question. Cake bakers can still get creative on smaller dessert options without eliminating the idea of a main cake as well. A popular wedding magazine  recently suggested having a cake baker decorate one layer of actual cake along with multiple layers of styrofoam while then serving sheet cake to guests who would “be none the wiser”; marrying the idea of having a big cake while saving a few dollars. Sounds like a great idea, but what about having a smaller, yet main cake and lots of other little desserts? This way you can have different flavors and different looks that are tied together by the design of the main cake.

Another way to keep both the cake and the dessert table is to offer things that can be homemade like Grandma’s famous snickerdoodle cookie and Aunt Peggy’s fruit tart? Bringing in family recipes in potluck kind of way gives certain guests some importance and melds with the tradition of sharing your family with your guests. Having multiple kinds of desserts to make every guest happy still doesn’t mean a couple needs to negate a cake.

Here are some of my favorite cakes I have seen and their counterpart dessert options:

This three-tiered fondant cake covered in ombré colored candied hearts is simple and modern. The main cake can come in many sizes and can be supplemented by raspberry cheesecake bites and heart-shaped beignets.

 

Macaroons have been a trendy staple since the dessert table first became popular. These blue macaroons match the ruffled  three-tiered wedding cake. Another fun and tasty treat that is gaining momentum on the dessert table are churros. Add a fun colored dipping cup for the chocolate, a neat patterned paper napkin and churros can go with anything.

 

Chocolate is a favorite when it comes to desserts. Chocolate chip cookies especially. They are the perfect accent to this single tiered honeycomb chocolate cake. To make the chocolate more adult, top off the evening with a chocolate Guinness milkshake.

 

There are some cakes that take my breath away. This hand painted single tier cake is one of them. In an instance like that, I wouldn’t want to clutter the table with other rich desserts. Mochi ice cream, a Japanese dessert of ice cream inside “mochi”, pounded or pressed sticky/sushi rice, is one of my favorite desserts. bite sized in any flavor and (mostly) drip free, guests will love them. To take another more adult approach to dessert, cosmo jello shots are sure to keep the party going on the dance floor.

YUMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!

-Hilary

 

Happy Valentine’s Day!

“You know you are in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” -Dr. Seuss
-Hilary

Give a Dog a Bone When You Say I Do

Photo Credit: Chris Duke/Westminster Kennel Club

Today is the first day of the 136th Annual Westminster Kennel Club Dog Show! For those of you who don’t know, I am currently working for Westminster and have been surrounded by all things dog related (and office related of course) for the past few weeks. This dog show isn’t just any dog show. This show is the big kahuna and the dog who wins the title of Best in Show tomorrow night will be the equivalent to Miss America in the canine world. Hickory, the Scottish Deerhound who won the title of Best in Show last year and other winners in years past are deemed the “perfect” dog have gone on to ring the closing bell of the New York Stock Exchange, ride on a float in the Macy’s Parade (which I have done as well but it wasn’t from winning top dog at a dog show) and even visiting the President at the White House.

But these dogs aren’t just any normal dog. They are groomed and trained to be the perfect dog and know how to behave around tens of thousands of people and with flashing cameras. These dogs are the pure bred, Mensa members of the dog world. Not everyone has a dog like these.

In the acting world, working with children and animals is always unpredictable just like it will be on your wedding day. A lot of couples think really hard about including children and which children in particular in their wedding. Although I am not a mother, I am a pet owner and as much as I would like to believe that my pet is well trained, I know she’s not. Granted my pet is a cat with a leaky eyeball (poor Gracie the Cat) and not a dog. Regardless, just because I love my pet doesn’t mean she needs to be in my wedding.

Yours truly with Gracie the Cat

For the sake of this post, let’s pretend that my non-groom Brandon and I have a French Bulldog named Rufus. We love Rufus dearly and he is for the most part a very well behaved dog. He doesn’t bite, but he is a scene stealer. Between his good looks that makes everyone a little tender and his ability to not always follow commands unless they are followed by the word “TREAT?”, he doesn’t make a good candidate for ring bearer. I would only worry that he would run up the aisle rather than down, pee on the linen, hump a guest’s leg, chew on a flower arrangement…the list goes on and on. This same list applies to some of my human family as well.

The next question is what do you do with the dog after the ceremony? What if your ceremony and your reception are held at the same venue? No one is going to go home and drop your dog off. You would need to find some sort of doggy sitter (which is not one of the duties of a wedding planner mind you!) What if you have a destination wedding? You would need to get a dog friendly hotel and keep your dog on a leash at all times. Are you incorporating your dog because s/he is a part of your family or to be trendy and because you think its cute? Real questions to ask yourself before throwing your dog a bone on your big day.

With that all being said, there are dogs that are well behaved and well trained just like the dogs competing in the Westminster Kennel Club this week. Loyal and behaved canines who obediently stand by their master/mistress’s side. Dogs who could have their own little bed with a special treat of cooked meats and veggies right by where their owners have their sweetheart table. Dogs that are big enough to be seen and not stepped on should the want to walk around the reception and mingle with the guests.

If this is your kind of dog, having him/her in your wedding is a lovely idea. Have the florist make a garland to go on the collar and leash that matches the other floral in your party. Have the ring bearer or flower girl walk the dog down the aisle and give him/her the responsibility of holding on to the dog through the ceremony. You could also dress the dog up in a doggy tux, but I know my non-groom Brandon would never allow Rufus to wear clothes.

There are ways to incorporate your beloved canine in your wedding, but be very sure and play devil’s advocate with yourself to make sure having your dog there is a good idea. Its not your coordinator or the assistant’s job to look after and clean up after your dog. Hire a handler or sitter or if you know of a friend who REALLY loves dogs (I’m looking at you Rachel Jones!) to be there and watch your dog on  your big day.

Doggie garland, Doggie wreath, Doggie tux

-Hilary

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...
B e   S o c i a l